so sometimes when you date people there are expectations you will get to know their family. this can be an awkward situation for all involved, but i find it particularly disconcerting for one reason.
i do my best to find out as much as possible before the actual meeting takes place, but this phrase is especially comforting:
"it's weird but i look nothing like the rest of my siblings!!"
because who hasn't finally met the guy's mom, dad, aunts and uncles, all great people and then you meet his sister. who looks EXACTLY LIKE HIM! gahhhh. suddenly everything you thought you were attracted to makes you question your sexual orientation. not a fan.
it's not that i don't love meeting new girl friends. i just don't enjoy the confusion that comes when i'm looking into my lover's eyes and there she is. talk about an invasion of privacy.
i might be able to make an exception if it were him and her
but him and her...
wait i forget nikki is a woman. i'm still not convinced...?
anyway, i guess i should get over this little issue i have. especially after tonight's lecture from my father about how my expectations are too high. but is it that complicated? all i'm asking is for that one little sentence. i won't even ask for him to have a normal last name...